Chain of command
Monday, April 27th, 2009This is probably true of many cultures, but I attribute it to my German/Russian heritage because of the experiences I had growing up = the father is in charge, no matter how old he is.
One fall day many years ago we were out pheasant hunting. Well, the older folks were - my father, grandfather and uncle. Us little kids were just used for fetching the birds. At any rate, a bird flew over my father. Grandpa hollered and him to shoot, but he didn’t, what with it being a hen pheasant and all. My grandfather proceeded to scold my father for not taking the shot. What was so astounding to us kids was that my father, normally so gruff and demanding, was standing there so quiet, not saying a word while his father was barking orders at him, “I don’t care if it was a hen. The next time I tell you to shoot, you’d darn well better listen.”
It didn’t matter how old my father was or that he had a family of his own, he was still expected to obey and respect his own father.










